God has led me down the path to donate a kidney to my father.

Saturday, January 13, 2007

Life after donation.






Well, here are my incisions 7 weeks after donation. It's hard to believe it's actually been 7 weeks but it has! In the first picture you can see the full shot of all the incisions, Picture 2 is just the instrument incisions and Picture 3 is of course the removal incision, which is the biggest one. It's very interesting as I look back on my previous pictures and I can see how much they have changed in the past 7 weeks, and I am sure they will keep changing and as they do I will post them so that anyone who is donating in the future can see what they will look like, or at least the basic idea since everyone's tend to be a bit different. I know they will never go away and that's okay because I wear them proudly as a symbol of what Dad and I went through together. They will always remind me of the experience that was so full of love and emotion that we shared. Although, I don't need to be reminded of how much this meant to my father, I see it everyday in they way he lives now, but every time I look at my incisions I remember how it was for me. I will wear them for life, and no matter what happens I will always be able to look at them and say that I gave a life to someone who was losing theirs. I am proud of them and to be honest I wouldn't want them to disappear, they are a part of who I am now. Life after donation has been not all that different from life before, except that I am healthier in my choices. I eat better and I drink more water because doing both of these things just makes me feel better. I was always a supporter of organ donation, but of course now I feel much stronger about it because I know so much more about it and I have seen first hand what it can do for someone else. I have a wonderful organ donation magnet displayed on my car, and two organ donation pins worn on my jacket and anytime anyone asks about them I am more than happy to elaborate. I also have a t-shirt with 10 reasons to donate which I wear in the hopes that it may encourage someone else to think about organ donation, whether it be living donation or not, any organ donation is a wonderful thing to do. Just imagine saving someone's life by giving them a piece of yourself. It's amazing. I was speaking with my father today and he was telling me that he remembers when I was a little girl, 2 or 3 years old, and we were outside in our driveway in the winter, I was wearing a snowsuit and I was so cold that I was clutching my arms around his neck and holding on so tight he could hardly breathe. He said it seems like so long ago. Life is precious, he gave me mine, and now I've given him back his. I hope we all remember just how precious life is, don't take it for granted and never forget that God put us all here for a reason, mine was to save my father, what will yours be? Give life, and you will have truly lived. I thank God for allowing me to do this and I pray that I can help someone else in their journey. This blog has been a wonderful outlet for me to convey my thoughts and feelings on organ donation, I encourage you all to leave your comments and I will always read them and respond. You may have noticed my posts getting farther apart, this will probably happen more and more as time goes on and life goes on and my experience with living donation becomes more distant. It's kind of a catch 22, things went so well and are going so well that there is little left to write about now and that is a great thing, however I am sad that I have less to write and I wish that there was more to say, but God has blessed us and so the experience my father and I have had has been told and there is not too much more to say. I will still keep writing and keep you posted on our progress, however my posts will be less frequent, but keep checking because I will keep posting! Thank you to everyone who has followed us on our journey, it is not over, it will never end, it has just become less eventful and that is truly a God send. It's all we can hope for, smooth uneventful sailing :) I feel like I have been touched by this experience and I hope it has touched you in some way. God bless.

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

You write very well.

1:35 PM

 

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